“Just be YOU. People will understand and realize the GENUINENESS even after y’all have broken up. And not only do you hold yourself to a better standard, they do as well bc the energy you bring will only set the bar for the next. Like nah…I was with *your name* SHE DID THIS and SHE DID THAT… I ain’t settling. The gag is..once you come to understand what you thought was impossible to be possible…there is no “going back”. That’s why it’s important to be your genuine self, to do what you would do for someone and not care about looking dumb bc even if they do feel that way in the moment, trust and believe me…YOU HAVE SET THEIR BAR and I always set the MF BAR with ppl…bitch you gon know I’m THAT GIRL. I’m a dream girl!”
Confidence isn’t always about looks- it can be with your status, with how you handle yourself emotionally, with what you have and worked for or don’t. Make sure you’re confident enough in every area of your life not just so that other ppl can’t talk about you but so that YOU cannot talk badly about yourself. You’re your first critic and lover, remember. Make yourself proud.




